THE TRUE STORY OF THE WORST CHILD ABUSE CASE IN U.S. RECORDED HISTORY

The True Story of the Worst Child Abuse Case in U.S. Recorded History

The Horror of the Debra Luptak Case

By Adrienne Papp | July 28, 2010

Debra Luptak, Courtesy of Adrienne Papp

We’ve all heard fantasy stories, or true events that are either too good to be true, rags to riches tales, or so full of suffering and unspeakable human misery that we have a hard time comprehending its reality. No wonder that some of the biggest blockbusters made in Hollywood come out of true stories of ordinary people doing the impossible, exemplifying the good in us and not the all-too-common tragically wasted potential and literal loss of life when it comes to horrific circumstances like those of Debra Luptak’s.

The unbelievable true story of Debra, which is becoming the talk of the town as Hollywood producers compete for her story, incorporates not only the impossible, but also the exceptional and unprecedented. It’s a story that begins in the deepest hell and most barbarian of conditions ever seen by the mortal eye, and yet transitions into a tale of triumph over impossible odds, redemption and a shared hope for the human existence.
Debra’s story is not an easy one to tell, some of the details are not only disturbing, but also painfully unnerving. Yet, the chilling perplexities while astonishing, also serve as a sad illustration and soul-penetrating lesson of what an individual “Homo sapien” is capable of by revealing both the darkest and most uncivilized characteristics, as well as the triumphant resourcefulness of the human spirit.

The nightmare began at birth. When Debra Luptak was born she was dubbed “The Devil’s Daughter,” as her paranoid schizophrenic mother bizarrely identified her as a child from the Devil in a family where she desperately wanted only male children. Sexually abused herself as a child, Debra’s mother began to abuse her daughter at birth, putting her crib in a confining closet at the back of the house. She was convinced that her newborn daughter was trying to destroy her marriage and would end up having sex with her husband.

When she was three weeks old a mosquito from the nearby swamps got through a hole in Debra’s closet and bit her, causing encephalitis, a high fever, convulsions and eventually a coma. Debra had to have her spine drained and spent weeks recovering in a hospital. All along her Mother insisted that she had been “born crazy.” At six weeks, Debra had to be rushed to the hospital when she stopped breathing and turned blue from lack of oxygen. Her Mother claimed that “Debra tried to kill herself” by stuffing her blanket down her throat ( as if a six week old were able to do that,) not admitting to paramedics that she had tried suffocating her daughter until she was near death.

Debra, being the oldest daughter, took the full brunt of her Mother’s abuse, although younger sister Danielle was also badly mistreated when she was born. They were both routinely subjected to vindictive deprivation and homicidal rage, yet Debra was her Mother’s main target. In the young family living near St. Louis, MO, which also included two boys, but only the girls were subject to the terror and dread dealt to them by their mentally disturbed Mother. “My Mother wanted nothing to do with me or my sister Danielle, who was born eleven months after I was born in 1962,” Debra says. “Both of us were kept in separate cramped closets as infants and toddlers, and when we moved to our second home we were kept in a damp, musty, unfinished basement with just a mattress. The meager food we received was placed on the stairs, as if we were sub-humans or pets. Neither of us ever had any potty training and we would go for days without having our diapers changed and we both had terrible rashes and sores from our soggy diapers.”

Those sores caused Debra to scratch herself continuously, and when her mother discovered it, she became convinced that her daughter was touching herself sexually and was “queer.” Her delusional thinking led her to devise homemade straightjackets that she made Debra wear to control her “evil” habits. “The straightjackets made sure that I couldn’t move, and I was continually strapped into this restraint with one of my legs placed over the other,” Debra says. “That was how I learned to walk, in this straightjacket, with one leg over the other, hobbling in a contorted position, trying to move myself forward.”

The straightjacket also had long term physical implications. “One of my legs grew to be deformed since I had it continually strapped over the other one,” Debra says. “It took six months of physical therapy in a hospital to reduce the effect of that deformation.”

Debra’s mother also forced Debra to sit with strapped arms and legs to a potty chair for hours, and tried to get her to urinate by forcing a syringe up her vagina. For years Debra learned to hold her urine and bowel movements, but eventually she would make a mess in her panties, which caused her mother to smear her face with feces and then dry it with an electric fan, a humiliation that she found humorous. “And later when Danielle and I were together in the damp basement in our second home, she would stand us over a drain and hose us down with icy water in that cold basement in the dead of winter,” Debra remembers.

Mother just wasn’t cut out for housework either, and didn’t think it necessary to attend to cleaning and housework. “She never washed dishes. There were pots of food molding in the kitchen and in the refrigerator,” Debra says.

It was a terrifying existence for a child. Every day was simply something to endure, a test of survival. Eventually young Debra thought her father might come to her rescue and become her savior, but he was a slight man and powerless to deal with the destructive behavior his domineering 5-foot 9-inch, 250-pound wife exhibited toward his daughters.

Things worsened when Debra’s Mother would fight with her father, Larry, whose concerns for the girls would cause her to increase their abuse. Shouting and arguments could continue for hours, as she verbally abused the girls’ father. When police arrived they would arrest the Father, and he would spend a night in jail.

The daily torture continued in many ways. Physical abuse was commonplace, and included cigarette burns and the use of pharmaceutical drugs (such as Valium) to keep Debra quiet, beginning at an early age. “I was fed an assortment of adult pills to keep me sedated and immobile beginning when I was about two years old. Mother had convinced a doctor that she needed a prescription for stress and anxiety, and she used whatever drugs she could get to keep me in a stupor,” Debra says.

Within days of being force fed adult sedatives, Debra fell into a coma, losing sensory perceptions. Her Father found her on the floor of her closet reeking of urine and feces in a comatose state. She was rushed to Children’s Hospital in St. Louis, where she spent several weeks recovering from her Mother-inflicted drug overdose.

The overdose was reported to social services, which finally stepped in and took serious action against the family, telling them that Debra would be placed in a home in southern Missouri for a year until the family decided whether or not they wanted her or could take care of her.

Debra eventually was returned to her family after her one year stay at a foster home. A number of relatives gathered at the family home to welcome her, and were impressed with how nicely her hair had grown out during her time away. Angered by the attention her daughter was getting, Debra’s mother took the scissors to her hair the next day, chopping off the offensive object of admiration.

For the first formative years of her young life, Debra Luptak was routinely brutalized, physically and emotionally on a daily basis. She was physically malnourished and beaten, emotionally and cognitively stunted, and completely without any nurturing or schooling. She was caged both physically in a closet and later in a basement, and mentally with pharmaceutical drugs and strong adult sedatives, but through it all she learned to survive.

“Many days I heard a tiny voice inside me say that things would be all right, the voice telling me that ‘It’s not you,” Debra recalls. “If it hadn’t been for that I don’t know if I could have survived the daily torment. Something deep inside me told me that there was something better for me and that I would survive my mother’s hatred for me. I somehow knew that my mother could beat me, could physically and emotionally torment me, but she would NEVER take away my will to survive or destroy me.” Despite the reassuring voice, Debra’s life was always about “hanging on just one more day.”

In 1967, after her parents divorced, Debra’s mother packed up the kids and moved to Arizona to live with a man who owned a ramshackle 10-acre ranch out in the middle of the Palo Verde desert, about fifty miles west of Phoenix. “He was an ex-military man who had a twisted sense of discipline, and was an ideal partner in crime for the demented behavior of my mother,” Debra says. “He built a form of animal pen for us out there, and we had to surrender our shoes so that we couldn’t run away on the scalding hot desert sand. Years later I went back to the site of the ranch and found a pair of my shoes there. I keep them on my desk now as the only keepsake as a little girl, and what I had to survive back then.”

Life at the ranch in Arizona also included other forms of abuse for the young daughters, including forcing them by cattle prod to scrub the bathtub in the trailer, constrain them to eat horse manure and dog food while the boys ate Oreo cookies and making them walk on hot galvanized metal in the 110-degree desert heat without shoes as a daily punishment. The girls, Debra and Danielle, were never allowed to stay in the trailer, and in many cases the boys were forced to torment their sisters as well. “My Mother thought it would be fitting if we were branded, and encouraged my brother Matthew to use a hot fork to make brand marks on us, Debra says.

Other forms of abuse at the ranch included burning the girls with cigarettes, Mother wrapping her finger around her daughters’ hair and yanking chunks of it out, and pouring hot pepper spice or paprika on the girls’ private parts in her delusional mind’s attempt to destroy her daughter’s female parts.

It’s almost impossible to believe this kind of torture was routinely inflicted on young innocent children, three young girls trying to survive a life that seemingly couldn’t get any worse. But Mother Jayne and stepfather Harold continued to find new ways to enhance the misery. It was years later that Harold decided to sexually molest the youngest sister Doreen.

Debra and Danielle became desperate to find ways to escape the compound, and they were finally able to run away. The police became involved, and the girls’ rebelliousness eventually got to be too much for the mother and step-father who got “tired of the runaway girls” and, before Debra’s 6th birthday (an occasion the family never celebrated), she and Danielle were dumped at a social service center to begin new lives in a series of foster homes. Strangely enough, Debra’s Mother was never arrested for her brutality towards her daughters for the simple reason that no one ever pressed charges.

“I had no frame of reference for what a normal family life was,” Debra says, “but I didn’t think things could get any worse. The odd thing was I really didn’t want to go. I didn’t want to leave my siblings.”

Their first placement at a foster home happened to be with a family who were nudists. The second foster family had an 18-year old son who raped Debra at the age of six. There were a series of other homes for the girls, and eventually Debra went to a family on her own and separated from Danielle, which was yet another pivotal turn in her life.

Each foster home was far from ideal. When Debra was nine she moved to the home of an older couple in Minnesota who wanted a daughter to replace their daughter who had been killed in a car accident. “That was a very strange experience for me. They had sealed off their daughter’s room and kept her things in place like she was still alive.”

Life in Minnesota for Debra offered some stability, but also more torment. By the 3rd grade Debra had figured out that she could get attention from boys, and by the 6th grade was running with a free spirited and unruly group of kids. When she was eleven years old, Debra was raped again, and she then became a school drop out in the tenth grade. “I was very rebellious towards the adult figures in my life, and yet on the flip side sexually very promiscuous with the boys, looking for the love and affection that I never got as a child,” she says.

While living with her adoptive parents in Southern MN, at the tender age of fourteen, Debra became pregnant. She had a son at fifteen, who she ended up keeping. She also tried to commit suicide later on, but her inner strength triumphed over death. The world needed Debra.

By the age of sixteen Debra was married, and by the age of twenty-two she had four boys. She was now a full-fledged mother, and was determined to give her children the love that was denied her as a child. By this point in her life Debra Luptak was determined to be the best mother she could be, virtually exploding with love towards her family.

Through her twenties, with the years of torture behind her and the healing ahead of her, Debra Luptak was finally on the right track to a balanced life. She busied herself with her family, getting an education, earning a 3.7 to 4.0 GPA and studying psychology and paranoid schizophrenia in an attempt to understand her mother’s illness. She had acquired a passion for learning as a college student and became committed to pursuing a career that would fulfill her potential. She had begun to recognize her true talents both as a woman and a teacher.

At that time in her life Debra felt ready and pursued a 3-year search on her biological family. It was when she summoned the courage to contact her mother on the phone as an adult for the first time in many years. Her Mother’s first words to her were: “Yes, I remember you, you are the Devil’s Daughter.” In 1992 the family was reunited on “The Jenny Jones Show,” but there was no real reconciliation possible for Debra and her Mother.

And there were still many bumps in the road before Debra Luptak was to find her way to a stable, happy, fulfilling life. In her thirties she attempted suicide twice, and in her forties her third son Bryce lost his life in an ATV accident in 2005. She dedicated her third book, (“Why we Cry for a Soul set Free”) to helping other parents heal from the unbearable tragedy of losing a child. But, almost as if each setback made her stronger, there was a healing process, a pivotal turn of life going on underneath it all.

“I took many different paths,” she says in her book A Survivor’s Closet, “the paths that I thought were the right ones. Stubborn and full of determination, I believed I knew what was best for my child and my adult. Long stretches of time were spent in tears, releasing endless pains from the inner part of my soul. Allowing myself to breathe, to deeply inhale through my nose and exhale through my mouth over and over to calm my restless body. I revealed my deepest emotional and physical courage so I could reshape my future. It was as if a hurricane was living deep inside me and after years of life-threatening waters, I could finally find calmer seas.”

Today, Debra Luptak, after having survived inhuman conditions and constant torture, is a highly successful businesswoman, the author of three books ("A Survivor’s Closet," "Why We Cry for a Soul Set Free," " …and then There Was Light," with as many as 11 more books in the works, a life coach, and a corporate lecturer (www.debraluptak.com) teaching others, either as individuals, or groups, what it takes to be survivors and become successful at beating the odds when the odds are stacked against you.

Her story is a very vivid example for even the most skeptical of souls that with the right thinking and determination we can not only endure adverse circumstances, but can also reach the highest of human potentials and triumph into the light from the deepest of darkness. With a strong sense of self, Debra today commands all excuses begone, defines the true meaning of extraordinary, and proves every word of her teachings with her life experience. She earned her power through discovering her personal ability, which allowed the transcendence of intense and horrific situations and circumstances, something that other motivational speakers, although greatly recognized, cannot say about their own lives. Nobody has the personal history of terror and torment that Debra Luptak does.

Debra does not lecture philosophies; she puts thinking and realizations into practice. As Oprah once said: “We need to thrive to achieve the highest good within us and transform others through our own example.” Debra Luptak, a genius in her own right, dedicated her life to the most noble of causes: helping her fellow humans through a complete transformation of the self. For as Einstein said: “Only a life lived for others is worth living.”

In her very successful hard cover book, "A Survivor’s Closet," Debra says: “Leave your memories buried beneath the dirt, Share your gift with those you inspire, and Dive into life with your gift of strength. “

This courageous, beautiful woman inside and out, turned her life into a raving success, raised four boys with love and caring, has the most supportive and giving marriage and is here to help all of us if we are willing to listen. Debra Luptak is God’s angel, an unparalleled inspiration and blessing to the World! She possesses the biggest treasure there is: the gift of forgiveness. That something inside her that was able to transform terror and daily fear into love and compassion is the very essence of what our 21st century crises-stricken humanity needs to find in each and every individual’s heart. Making a better world starts from within and is not only a must, but a responsibility that the majority of mankind does not understand. Most people in Debra’s shoes would choose drugs and alcohol to numb the pain or remain in denial, and even justify it, instead of realizing that the most joy and the biggest transformation is born out of hardship and not fun and games.
With Debra, a full presence emerges empowered by the encoded iron will granted by God to all humans, asking us to awaken, to become conscious and realize that our choices are the ones determining our destiny and not our outside circumstances, or other people’s actions.

By telling her story, Debra conveys to us both the teachings of Jesus Christ and the latest discoveries in science about the workings of the human mind and how we connect to that higher intelligence we know exists. Are we ready to understand our own power? Are we ready to wake up from sleepwalking through life, and instead, become valued individuals helping the world and ourselves evolve? Are we ready for a new way of thinking, a new reality, a new life, a new destiny? Are we ready to hear the words of the universe through Debra’s voice?

Debra Luptak has been ready all along, sensing even as a child that someday she would be called to shine her light throughout the direst circumstances of the human condition. Her destiny has been written from the beginning, unbeknownst to her, but something that humanity cries out to hear from a source that has been through it all. And, that source is her story: the Debra Luptak story!

Comments to date: 282. Page 1 of 2. Average Rating:

Brittany Indiana	7:43am on Tuesday, May 15th, 2012
your story touch me and I look at my life and how I use to have it at home and it made me be thankful for the home I have now things like abuses change people but sometimes i can't help to think that what would i do if i was in that abuses home I give great thanks to my adopted parents.
I love Liverpoool Massachusetts	4:59pm on Monday, May 14th, 2012
I love my parents! They buy me food,toys,and clothes. My dad wanted boys but he loves me and my sister more than anything in the world! Allison xoxo
Belinda Cleary detroit	7:21pm on Friday, May 11th, 2012
seriously...........try this family of 5 shopping for christmas gifts in salvation army t 9.....having your mom sitting around the fam trying to kill us.......watching ur deadbeat dad chasing niggs around the house.......and this is tame trust me u haven't seen nothing
adriane OKC,OK	1:04pm on Friday, May 11th, 2012
HI IM ALSO A SURVIVAL OF CHILD ABUSE WHICH STARTED AT A YOUNG AGE I READ U STORY AND IT IS VERY TOUCHING AND YOU INSPIRE ME I HOEP YOU CONTINUE TO ATLK AND EDUCATE INDIVIDUALS ON ABUSE AND INDIVIDUAL SSPEAK UP AND DO THE RIGHT THING.
Anonymous Location unknown	6:42am on Friday, May 11th, 2012
ther is a special place for her which consists of gnashing of teeth, total darkness, eternal suffering. And has a sign upon entering"abandon all hope"its asame there is no 10th level of,hell divine comedy) dontes inferno.
James radford	6:26am on Friday, May 11th, 2012
There is a special place in hell for people like her.
seth dickweed ohio	11:19am on Thursday, May 10th, 2012
this is sicker than shit on a stick
katelyn campbell hastings, MI	9:51am on Monday, May 7th, 2012
good for you and for staying so strong(:
Ashley PA	8:28am on Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012
this is the worst story i have ever heard! i could never go thru what yu went thru! im so sorry and yu have inspired me please remember that yu have a family and a good life now!
betzy missio,tx	10:13am on Tuesday, May 1st, 2012
wow i cant believe theres actually mothers like this out ther..if having a child is a miracle i cant explain why somebody would harm a defenseless child):
ALAIJAH HARRIS KENTUCKY	9:40am on Tuesday, May 1st, 2012
IF i cant live with my mom hittin me i know you couldnt live with this nonsense i would have odopted you if you got put up !!!!!!!!!!
Mav a C TN	9:18am on Friday, April 27th, 2012
this is a very powerful story and everyone needs to read this especially those who had everything handed to them as a child so they can realize just how truely lucky they were to never experience the agonizing torture on a daily basis. however, much like you said, only true joy and happiness comes from hardships and personal suffering, if you choose to have the will power to overcome the seemingly impossible obstacles.
Savanna Hicks	5:53pm on Thursday, April 26th, 2012
That waz the saddest story ever..!! I cant evwn beilive itz true thtz AFWAL ..!! Debra yhur a very stronq indepent woman . Hopefully tht never happrnz to anyonr ..!! I never qotted abuzed im only 13 im still younq .anywayz i hope tht yhu can sinehow forqet tht it seemzso scary to be in tht.! Debra i love yhu yhur asome nd ima buy hur book 4/26/2012
sarah los angels	9:33am on Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
that's just the saddest:(
sequoyah utah	6:50pm on Tuesday, April 17th, 2012
i think this was a story that needed to be told because there are to many kids out there that dont have support and no one to call because most adults dont believe what they have to say and they feel trapped like they cant get out no matter what they do are how good they behaive and their are to many kids out there suffering today and its sad because its starting in their own home and thats where a child should feel most safe most protected like nothing can happen to me here and its not but i hope and pray that kids who are suffering and that are getting abused get that satisfaction of being free and having someone love them like they deserve to be loved
candice Location unknown	10:29am on Tuesday, April 17th, 2012
im doing a project on child abuse and i saw ur story and read it...i am soo sorry to here about your terrible childhood. No child deserves any kind of abuse, let alone all the kinds out there. i dont know you but your story touched me deeply. you are a very brave soul to put ur story out there hoping to help in some way. Just by this you can tell how strong you really are! you should be very proud because im sure you have helped some little boy or girl how to get through there abuse, sometimes its just nice to know you arent alone!
jemmabee o	6:46am on Wednesday, March 28th, 2012
this is unbelievable . i mean i thought my life was nad being in foster care under child protection and that but ur story seems to bad to be true its awful u are one amazing women and i hope u get everything that u missed out on as a child .
Anonymous Location unknown	4:12pm on Friday, March 23rd, 2012
i feel soooo bad for debra and her sister danielle it is much more horrible than a child called it
Caleb Ethridge Kansas	8:53am on Friday, March 23rd, 2012
wow I was also abused when i was younger by my father who is now in prison for 10 years cause of something else that i dont know about and i think that people that are so screwed in the head to abuse children should not be allowed to have any freedoms what so ever or any rights just for what they do cause they think its fun and satisfying...jsut makes me sick and i am glad that
Raven Location unknown	2:06pm on Thursday, March 22nd, 2012
OMG. Im a sophmore and this story touched me. All the things i thought was wrong with my life couldn't compare. Im so greatfull she survived.
Lianna Beverly Hills	1:13pm on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012
This was so touching! I feel for Debra. I have also read Dave Pelzer's story and the both of you deserved the best!!! P.S. I am very happy with my life. P.P.S. I was never abused
annyha San Angelo	11:52am on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012
OMG i feel sooooooooooo bad i'm sorry debra
Tsubaki Kuranai Phoenix, AZ	10:39am on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012
I feel horrible for her. To live that long with her mother. But did she ever got to meet her sister?
bethany rhode island	7:21am on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012
i hate child abusers they hurt innocent children for no apparent reason. how could anyone do that, the tears running down their face and u just watch them cry. its horrible child abusers should just kill themselves for hurting children.
elayna houston texas	7:08pm on Monday, March 19th, 2012
this was a very sad story and i put this in front of my class mates to show them. i am in 7th grade a would like yall to write more sad stories
Hazel Shoults Ohio	9:46am on Saturday, March 17th, 2012
Wow, I thought I had a horrible child hood but it is nothing compared to yours and Dave Pelzers. I could not imagine the treatment or life you two endured at such young ages. Shame on the authorities for never doing a damn thing and shame on your family! After going throught the sexual physical and mental abuse I went through I wanted to become a child service worker but changed my program because I couldn't stand the thought of always having my hands tied and didn't know if I could live with myself after the things I would have to deal with because I care so much for children. Even today it is hard for me to over come my thoughts when thinking there are children out there still living lives like this. I use my child hood as a learning process and lesson as to how to treat my children and how to love them. It is beautiful when people get their stories out there, now if we could only change the laws on Child abuse and maybe make new parents have mental evaluations done before they can take their child home. It is not a cure but may help!
jerry ca	10:00pm on Thursday, March 15th, 2012
i thank god that i had normal parents
Gabrielle Liverpool	2:16pm on Thursday, March 15th, 2012
Oh my goodness! In the pass it must of been so bad and painful! I am literally crying :( I am also very sorry for the loss of your little boy. I know you maybe wont belive me, but actually I am only 10! Can you belive that?? I have seen many, many Child Abuse Stories. I am looking forward to going to College. Because I wanna help the Kids in Africa and I also wanna help the Albino's and I wanna help the Homeless people find homes, and help STOP the War... I also read one of your books (My Mum Let me read it) Best Reagards, Gabrielle xxx
nicole RI	5:40am on Tuesday, March 13th, 2012
I am sorry that those things happend to you : (. happy that you survived those things . Discusted me how her mom though she was gana sleep with the husband as an infint . The fu** ... Shes crazy i cant :'( ! !
Alaba titilope Ijeshatedo Nigeria	3:42pm on Sunday, March 11th, 2012
This story is so sad.
Destiny St.Louis	9:48am on Thursday, March 8th, 2012
Love This Veryy Helpfull:)
nita ohio	10:09am on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012
dont have kids if you are selfish or screwed up in the head you will do yourself and society a favor.
ANGELINA California	12:07am on Tuesday, March 6th, 2012
I am so glad to hear this story, I was abused sexually by a number of family members, as a little girl I felt powerless to their attacks. But I have to say they also made me a very aware mother to my 4 children and I speak to them openly and tell them no one has any rights to touch their body sexually or physically. I wish my parents loved me enough to put a stop to just one of my attackers. This story has made me feel so proud that I don't dwell on the past and that I am strong enough just to be sure these things don't happen to my children. Your stories will help girls and boys know that even through the worst abuse there is a piece of you inside that's called SURVIVAL and you can get through anything, just reach inside and pull it OUT:):):);)
Kinslee pheonix, az.	3:35pm on Sunday, March 4th, 2012
that is sooooooooooooo sad!!!!! i am doing a report on child abuse and i WILL mention Debra!!!!! :(
Brandi Clark mineral wells texas	10:45am on Monday, February 27th, 2012
that is really sad ...:( i feel sorry for people who have to go through that
Brittany New York	7:38pm on Friday, February 24th, 2012
Hope her mum died in hell!
Yasmin NC	12:05pm on Friday, February 24th, 2012
This Is a really sad story i cant believe how any mother would do that to their own child, i have a daughter and it would be awful to even think of laying my hand on her . Her mother really needed help !
tours st petersburg russia Location unknown	3:30am on Friday, February 24th, 2012
I just can not imagine with strong your blog greatly that saved me! Thank you “Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the cruelest words.” - Dr. Joyce Brothers
Courtney Stretch El paso	8:33am on Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012
Im doing a project in school on child abuse this story is very sad im so sorry
Megan PA	9:34am on Sunday, February 19th, 2012
Debra, I believe I speak for everyone when I say you are an inspiration to us all. Your courage shows us that things can get better even in the darkest of times. Just remember that you are a beautiful loved woman and that suicide will never be the answer to your problems. You make us recognize the values in life. It makes me think about how lucky I am to have parents who love me more than anything else. And by the way, those people who abuse their children should ROT IN HELL
jamane ny	7:12am on Wednesday, February 15th, 2012
i was abused
Roper Texas	7:34pm on Tuesday, February 14th, 2012
I knew abuse was awful but this extends past every word that means awful, Now I am really glad that I have my mother and that I am doing a speech on abuse!
Tiffany Kentucky	10:31am on Tuesday, February 14th, 2012
I think that is worse than what i have been through and that im glad she got away i support the people that are abused because i have been abused myself
Maclayne MI	5:40am on Tuesday, February 14th, 2012
I cannot believe that her mother called her the devil's daughter. It makes me very angry that someone whould ever treat someone like that. Im glad that she is alive and helping other people out there who have to deal with things like this.
susan woonsocket, rhode island	10:41pm on Monday, February 13th, 2012
I sympthize with Debra cause I to was a child and the oldest of another sister, at the hands of monsters and wicked evil people. I have to disagree with the title " The worst case of child abuse" there are worse and some people no matter how they try can raise themselves above it,they are traped in a hell of being, they know no other than the pain and anger of it all. You are lucky someone pulled you up somewhere and you held on, some out there didn't have that and that is all they want in life. I guess they want to belong and a chance at what life is and can be. There are worst cases of child abuse and there are deeper sacrifices made, to protect their children from the rage within a mother.
Alexis is the bomb North America	11:23am on Monday, February 13th, 2012
You guys, stop being so rude! You have no idea what she went through and i bet you guys were the ones who raped her! She is a great inspiration! I hope we all end up like her, strong and brave!
the hood Location unknown	7:38am on Monday, February 13th, 2012
worm are good even if u just suck on them
shanequa Location unknown	7:22am on Monday, February 13th, 2012
omg girl you be in charge!!! you be so hot your mama got notin on u!!
Emily Victoria	4:16am on Monday, February 13th, 2012
This is horrible... No one should ever have the rite to do this... She is an amazing person she is a hero. Oh and I wonder if she ever kept in contact with her sister ?
Emily Victoria	4:14am on Monday, February 13th, 2012
This is horrible... No one should ever have the rite to do this... She is an amazing person she is a hero. Oh and I wonder if she ever kept in contact with her sister ?
Anonymous Location unknown	2:51am on Sunday, February 12th, 2012
how cn peopl think that stories of such terror can be amazing! i feel very sympathetic towards debra and her siblings, and i hope that she will never experience abuse like that ever again. her story is truly admirable to read, and i wish that more people like debra will let their stories out and together we can conquer child abuse
Micheala E Arizona	8:13am on Thursday, February 9th, 2012
This tory was very sad ... im kind of speechless. i dont know how u can do that to your own kid!!!
Cece Kannapols	1:42pm on Monday, February 6th, 2012
I'm Happy To Know She Survived . She Is A TRUE Hero . Things Like This Need To Be Recognized ; Because These Are The Kind Of Things People Look Over! But If Nobody Else Will Make The Change .. I Will!
brandice bohn sebastian florida	8:18am on Tuesday, January 31st, 2012
i am working on stoping child abuse.
Murtaza Ezzy Pakistan	3:49am on Tuesday, January 31st, 2012
Such an inspirational story!!!! May people get a heart for their kids ....
Heidi Liverpool	1:51pm on Monday, January 30th, 2012
I feel 4 u. I am goin through the same thing now. My 2 sistes hav been killed by my dad. I am next. I am do scared. But this story has given me inspiration. Thank you.
Anna GhettoVille	5:51am on Monday, January 30th, 2012
-Do you think that one guy should have all that power. * NO man Shpuld HAve all that power!!!!!!!
Anna Location unknown	5:41am on Monday, January 30th, 2012
I Was Abused At An Early Age. I was Beaten By My step Fathers And They Threw Glass Bottles At Me And Now I Cant Even Sleep Without A Light On Because I have Memories Of More Than One MAn Coming In My Room Drunk And High On Pills Beatiing Me And Touching ME Inappropriatly....... I Know What People Go Through And I feel really Bad That Debra Had to Go Through That But If you Think About It If She Didint go through This Then She Probably Wouldnt Be The Smart Strong Brave And Heroic Person She Is Today.... Thats What I always Tell people When They Ask Me about MY Child Hood.
Mike Norfolk Va	11:57am on Thursday, January 26th, 2012
Google Patricia Beth Bolton (female, 13)Virginia Beach Va's Story, It Will Bring You To Tears. Sad Tough Life Tho.
Adam Virginia beach	11:52am on Thursday, January 26th, 2012
Sorry Thats Truly Sad But Its A Walk In The Park Compaired To The Elisabeth Fritzl Story. Still Sad Tho.
Barbra Asia	6:50am on Wednesday, January 25th, 2012
girl i feel for u
Sammi Ohip	7:58am on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012
I am 18 and i have never been abuse nor been through anything like derba or her 2 sisters or anyone that left a comment talking about how they got abuse but i do know of people that have been abuse and have been through rough times in their life. i read all kinds of storys about abuse and i think to my self "how can people have kids and yet do such horrible things to such beautiful blessing" god gave u a gift a gift that u should hold on to forever and never hurt them. i dont think people sit and think before they act. i truly am sorry for what derba and her sisters went through. i really couldnt see it from her point of view. but i do know tha god was with her and her sisters the whole time. i dont know how she kept her pride and kept walking through the end of her horible life. i am thank ful that she and her sisters are ok. this story is amazing and i am glad that it is out here so people can see what happens to people when they sit and complain about their moms and dad being mean or they say they dont care bout their kids. everyone needs to sit back and look. u can either have mom and dad that cares for u, that looks after you, that wont harm you in any way. or u can have a mom and dad like derba and her sisters that beats and dont care about them at all. like everyone has said if u need help go ask. dont sit here and wait intil it too late. it never a wrong choice to ask for help.
Prabha chawla India	5:10pm on Saturday, January 21st, 2012
Very sad. How can parents behave like that. Ur brave & courageous. We learn to forgive & be strong.
Anonymous Location unknown	7:00am on Friday, January 20th, 2012
what an amzaing story
Karlen South Carolina	6:14am on Tuesday, January 17th, 2012
Child Abuse is wrong! There is always something that can be done ;) Don't ever let anyone hurt you like that. I feel bad for you, Debra! :'( Soooo Sad! thank God that helped you in the end.
Anonymous Location unknown	1:22am on Tuesday, January 17th, 2012
this makes me think of a song tht she should listen to it is called a little bit stronger
haley mokc	8:14am on Sunday, January 15th, 2012
i am 10 and i just am speechless my mother used to feed me medicine so i would shut up and she wouldnt have to deal with me i look up to and i wish you the best and ur sisters
Ji Min Canada	8:52am on Saturday, January 14th, 2012
I am so, so glad she survived. She shows that human beings are survivors. Her mother is the devil's child. I don't care what anyone says, but to abuse a child in such a way... It's impossible, unless you are the devil's child. If you are a child going through child abuse, call for help. No matter how scared you are, how much you think you love your abusing parents, you do not deserve such beatings. Call for help!
Bob New York	3:58am on Saturday, January 14th, 2012
im crying so much ;( if you are a kid and being hit or anything you think isnt right then you can always call childline its free ;) on 0800 1111
Bob New York	3:55am on Saturday, January 14th, 2012
THIS IS HORRIBLE IM CRYING SO MUCKH ;(
Bob New York	3:53am on Saturday, January 14th, 2012
IF YOU NEED HELP AND YOU ARE EXPIRIENCING CHILDABUSE CALL CHILDLINE ON 0800 1111
Bob New York	3:49am on Saturday, January 14th, 2012
HOW CAN PEOPLE DO SUCH SICK THINGS TO CHILDREN THESE PEOPLE SHOULD BE PUNISHED FOR LIFE AND THEY SHOULD BE SENT TO PRISON AND GIVEN LEFTOVERS FOR FOODAND A DIRTY CELLER WITH A POTTY TO PEE IN
shade usa	6:54pm on Friday, January 13th, 2012
wowww this is sad it made me cry this reminded me of so many stories i read and movies i had watched wowww debra you are gods daughter never were you the devils never
Anounmynous Unknown	6:20am on Friday, January 13th, 2012
SOOOOOOOOO sad :'(
saul san diego	8:59am on Wednesday, January 11th, 2012
wow.. very very bad
sheniqua oregon	8:18am on Wednesday, January 11th, 2012
I'm deeeply sorry for what you endured and i am happy that your are stronger now. God had your back the whole time!
Avneet Fiji	3:48am on Wednesday, January 11th, 2012
Im really sorry for her and what she went through and I hope she has the best of life now I also admire her strength to go through all that
tressa wausau	7:08am on Tuesday, January 10th, 2012
im glad that you survived i have felt gulty my hole life my friend was also abused and raped but she died from it. if she where alive i bet she would go to where you are and hug you for surviving this torment she and i where alot a like and i want to hug you right now even though i dont know you i love you!
Katiie Indiana	8:57am on Monday, January 9th, 2012
I know exactly what you went through. But I don't understand how you managed.. I find it too difficult to bear..
Mara California	5:50pm on Saturday, January 7th, 2012
Debra's story is truly incredible and inspiring! I'm so glad I didn't just ignore this when I typed 'story' on google. I can't believe a mother would do anything like that! That just shows how ignorant most of us are. It really inpired me to be more thankful for what I have now. I hope her sisters are doing as well as her. Thank you, for posting up this story.
payton ohio	8:49am on Friday, January 6th, 2012
I was also doing a project in class for abuse, me and friends happened to come by your story. Im only 13 but this story touched me. the things you went through are horrid. Your the bravest and strongest woman here is. I look up to you, im terribly sorry for the things you went through. I'll never forget this story.. it made a huge inpact on my life. It made me think i should be grateful for what i have and the family i have and stop asking for more because i could of had a family like yours but i dont. Thanks for sharing, XoXo Payton
Melanie Texas	7:43am on Friday, January 6th, 2012
Wow im at school right now and im doing a project on abuse and i started crying in class. this is very touching.... im sorry for what you've had to go through, but stay strong and keep loking forward:)
nayelli marshall st.	7:14pm on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2012
im sorry to sy this but i hate her your parrents that abused you im gonna tell you the true im going through it to and god bless you your buitifull and i love you!!!!
dfsf califonia	9:02pm on Monday, December 26th, 2011
My Mother, was the same in ways.
Carmen Texas	8:39am on Sunday, December 25th, 2011
My mother went through almost the same things you did and has survived to become a strong woman and a loving mother. Thank you for sharing your story.
myesha nc	8:15pm on Wednesday, December 21st, 2011
your story is very breathe taking i pour my heart out to youu !!! what i dont get is what there mother had against them too Loving Girls ?! and if there father really LOVED them two he would of took Debra and her sister with HIM !! and her brothers are sick , they could of at least gave them food or changed them when there mother wasnt around or was sleep !! What was going through the brothers mind , and the mothers ??? Why in the world is there MOTHER not in jail for lifee or tortured something?!!! its just not right !!! God Bless You , Your Family and Your Sisters Family !!!!!
Carlisa Detroit,MI	8:19am on Wednesday, December 21st, 2011
i felt like i was there with you...... i been threw somethings as well.... but the thing is i don't understand is y did you drop out of high school and what was your purpose of calling your mom if you wanted to get away from her all those years....? my mother branded me with a fork whe i was five and i remember that i for gave her but i hate her now until this day i will never want to find her ever and never want to see her if i had to she choose drugs over me..... and sounded like she did drug as well a she was so crule to you..... but hey i only 15 years old...... what do i no
Robin Galley California	2:43pm on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011
Debra, please continue to use your gifs and talents to bring National attention to CURRENT child abuse conditions. Statistics for child abuse are only getting worse. It is estimated 5 children in the US die every day from abuse and neglect. As a working mother of 2 (2 year old and 6 month old), I am trying to find a way to help with this cause, but finding the balance is difficult. Blessings to you and your incredible strength and courage. Pray for those of us who are also concerned that we find the outlets we can support and bring change to our children.
Jennarose Missouri	1:41pm on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011
I just wanna know how someone even comes up with the creatively horrifying things that happen to children. Child abusers, you can all go to hell so Satan can torture you 15x worse than you did to your children.
ali india	1:10pm on Wednesday, December 14th, 2011
a brave and unbelievable women... What an insane mother... May Allah guide you to the right path .. Ameen.. So that you can be success in both now and here after
Person Unknown	7:19pm on Tuesday, December 13th, 2011
Omg I'm speechless. All I can say is that her mothers an asshole and is SICK!Debra, you're in my prayers God bless you and have happy, health and great life. It's amazing how people have no sympathy what so ever and no heart. Ill tell you It's hard to put me in tears and I don't cry a lot, but this...This is just heart breaking. I wish you, your husband and kids the best.
Hanging on OH	4:35pm on Tuesday, December 13th, 2011
It makes it easier to live with knowing other people have gone through and survived worse. What an encouragement.
Adam Knopp Colubus	1:11pm on Monday, December 12th, 2011
this is the sorriest storry i have ever read. i am truly sorry for what happend to you and i pray that it wont ever happen to anyone ever again
Anonymous nampa idaho	9:18am on Monday, December 12th, 2011
it makes me very sad that people would do that to poor inusint children
Nik Ga	8:59am on Sunday, December 11th, 2011
You say as a child that you were put on this earth with a purpose. You endured the unimaginable to be able to educate, mentor, for those going thru similar situations. Even though your mother abused you tried to kill your spirit and take your life, she couldnt, because what she failed to realize was that God had a purpose for you for beyond the abuse she could ever bear upon you. Though I have never been raised in a home where there was any type of abuse, your story truly inspired my,envy you ability to be so humble. This is not your story, it is your TESTIMONY, you made it!! May God continue to bless you, your husband and your children.
nalini ny	10:57am on Friday, December 9th, 2011
i cry reading your story but look at you now your mother wow she is sick.I hope all your dream come true today tomarrow and always keep making a difference to other.
Kristin Martinsville	9:18am on Friday, December 9th, 2011
I am currently writting a paper for school about child abuse. However my paper I have limited to why people do not speak out before it is to late. It seems so many people knew of what was going on and could have prevented further damage but chose to stay quite. Why? That makes them just as sick in my book. Come on people take a stand save a child.
Kim Bullhead City	6:26pm on Wednesday, December 7th, 2011
I was an adopted daughter of a paranoid schizophrenic mother, and have seen what damage they cause in myself. I did not suffer the physical but psychological abuse at her hands. You are stronger now, and you will stay that way. I am sure as I have some events that you cannot handle, but generally you are a very strong person. But then I am sure you know this.
andrew New Jersey	1:55pm on Monday, December 5th, 2011
I feel ur pain. My mother used to beat me with sticks. and during hurricane katrina she made me stay outside. she only fed me one every 2 days.
andrew New Jersey	1:55pm on Monday, December 5th, 2011
I feel ur pain. My mother used to beat me with sticks. and during hurricane katrina she made me stay outside. she only fed me one every 2 days.
harmonie turner new york	12:35pm on Saturday, December 3rd, 2011
I am so happy she survived i think her mother is a$$ and that and that her mother was the devil mom and she stupid but i am really glad that debra survived and thank god because he helped you and your sisters survive?
ammellia stratford	8:20am on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
i am so happy you pulled through,that must of been hell,i'm lucky i have loving parents to live with!!
Anonymous Location unknown	8:17am on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
that must of been hell,but at leased you survived
annette dallas,texas	9:31pm on Thursday, December 1st, 2011
wow!!! i called cps on my family b4 but only cause i got in trouble for my grades and was getting slapped around with a sandle but her story was just way more sad:( i wish she wud have had a protector from the beging and when the dad left he should have took them if he knew they were getting beat.. well thats just my 2 cent great but sad story :)) annette
samuel rodriguez dallas,tx	7:33pm on Thursday, December 1st, 2011
damn, just damn.
angela 4444 e denson hwy	4:28pm on Thursday, December 1st, 2011
omg im lucky not to go through that
Anonymous Location unknown	3:18pm on Monday, November 28th, 2011
This story is truly amazing... BRILLIANT!
H New York	7:05am on Saturday, November 26th, 2011
Omgosh..what a torment Debra has been through.. I pour out my heart to you.. It's just so crazy and sad how people are sometimes.. especially when a mother or father mistreats their children horribly. I'm just so thankful that the mother failed to kill Debra. I've heard many cases where the child would just die due to neglect/torments. Debra is a strong woman and has inspired many. Debra, your story has definitely made me realize how thankful I should be where I am right now. God bless.
Ashlee Rowe New Jersey	7:05pm on Wednesday, November 23rd, 2011
This made me cry...i understand what you went through because i went through child abuse myself for 13 years and im only 20...i dont want to say about my story because its too long to explain...i was abused by my aunt...right now im in the process of seeing a psychiatrist because ive been having nightmares and screaming in my sleep and been crying almost everyday...the thing that bothers me is that she got away with everything and is living her life acting like nothing ever happened...i wish i could just do that as well but i cant
Cheyenne Indiana	9:38am on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011
For the people that are saying that her mother was right about her beingt the devils daughter, grow up. You will never be able to know what she went through. Some people will never be able to comprehend it and I pray they won't be able to. Debra is such a strong woman, I am thankful I read this. I hope the people that say they are living something like this, that they will find the strength to leave.
Lacy Good indiana	9:31am on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011
im am grateful that you are alive. you are an inspiration to many of us
Di'Monde Location unknown	11:46am on Monday, November 21st, 2011
This story is very sad I'm just glad she was able to get through all this alive....this would make a great book and movie
Jacob Usa	8:53pm on Friday, November 18th, 2011
Wow that's do sad. And the moms still out there. She's the devil's mom
julia iluvyew	7:44am on Friday, November 18th, 2011
this is so sad. that mother should be put in jail for life! ~Jul1@ Luvs yuhhh~
Julia NY	7:41am on Friday, November 18th, 2011
DONT YOU WORRY ABOUT THIS I EAT DOGS NOBODY STOPED ME IHOPE YOU ARE OK
SHANIQUA Location unknown	7:40am on Friday, November 18th, 2011
GURRRRL, I FEEN YO PAIN.
STEFFAN NY	7:38am on Friday, November 18th, 2011
HONEY I FEAL YOU YOU WERE BORN THIS WAY
Anonymous Location unknown	7:27am on Friday, November 18th, 2011
I am very sorry you had to be trested like this, I hope you and your sister are doing well. May God watch over you and your sister and god bless.
alyssa Location unknown	6:40pm on Thursday, November 17th, 2011
i cant believe people would do this i mean why?? :( im so sorry for all of yall i really hope this can get better :(
JM CA	7:14pm on Wednesday, November 16th, 2011
I feel very bad for the girls, I am a mother of a 9 near old boy, from the second I lay eyes on him I loved him and I will do anything to protect him, he is my world and I would never hurt him!
kendra filer idaho	11:18am on Tuesday, November 15th, 2011
hi my name is kendra johnson and i was raped not to long ago and he is in prison for a very long time and ur story helped me alot more than i thought it would
Lizzie Washington	11:02am on Monday, November 14th, 2011
I said this story was excellet because debra was amazing in her life and she showed how even after she was abused so bad she still kept her head up and lived day to day! when i was 5 i was adopted into a abusive home where i was thrown over baby gates and ripped acrost a house by my hair and told i was satans daughter because i had red hair. when i was little about 6 or 7 i was told i was a whore and a slut if i whore shorts or anything that a little girl would normaly wear when she is younge...and then molested by my adopted brother and his best friend for years!i was then almost sufficated to death because my adoptive mother said i was "raping her son" and that i was a whore tryin to hurt peoples familys. it is years later and the abuse still haunts me. i have found my biological sisters and parents and the rest of my family but still having the abuse in my head hurts and sometimes i just dont know what to do with it. debra your truly a inspiration!
Emily N/A	6:45am on Monday, November 14th, 2011
None of my parents hit me but my dad does drink and occasionally hit my or abuse me but not as bad as some of you. I am so so SO sorry for all of you guys and You all will be in my prayers!! My god son has been sexually, Physically, emotionally, and mentally abused so bad that it had to go to court and he is still having dreams about her but the one thing he tells his "Nemmy-Poo" is that he wants his mom back. You wanna know how old he is? FOUR! That sick woman treated her adorable little son like that.
leanne london	2:56am on Monday, November 14th, 2011
Debra I feel for you i really do I have been through this experiance with my mother and my two sisters. It was only this year when it all stoped and i ran away from the horror of it. And thats left is memories of the experieance i am so happy for you to get away from that i really am.
kaite us	11:10am on Saturday, November 12th, 2011
im sooooo sorry for that poor thing i hope child abuse would just stop pppppplllllzzzzzz!!!!!!!!
Sabrina OH	7:16am on Saturday, November 12th, 2011
This is so sad i go through this
Megan Wisconsin	5:47pm on Friday, November 11th, 2011
Omigod, seriously? Debra is the devil daughter? Her mom made her eat poop and she poured hot things on Danielle and Debra's privates. That is just terrible, her mother deserves to burn in a fire or to be shot to death. That mother is seriosuly not even counted as a real person. She let her sons' eat oreos while her daughters' ate feces? FUCK HER!
Laura Atlanta	8:43pm on Tuesday, November 8th, 2011
she was right...you really were the daughter of SATAN.
Kelly OH	12:42pm on Monday, November 7th, 2011
Debra, Your light is shining here in Ohio. You are the essence of a human being and your lessons will be forever taught. Thank you for all you have done.
Xzandria Grote california	8:40pm on Saturday, November 5th, 2011
i was told all through my life that i was worthless. I was molested my my grandfather for 10 years of my life. my mother knew what he was doing with me also. She had me live with them. i feel so bad for her and her whole family. I was also in foster homes and gaurdain homes and my real moms place and a tent and my grandparents place i ma now 17 years old and dealing with my past
connor collins Location unknown	12:38pm on Friday, November 4th, 2011
hi i had to go through something the same with my mother when my mother and father seperated my mother was a mental case. she used to slap me hit me to physical abused me shed slamed a sement block onto my fuingers when i was 5 years old i broke every bone in my hand and never braught me to the hospital she tried to drown me in our pool and her partner was a fire fighter and one night staraped me to a wall a blasted me with the power hose i really hope that every thing in your life is ok know mine is i am going towards and scolership to america for golf tiger woods and rory mcilroy say i can be the best golfer in the world
Reed Location unknown	6:31pm on Thursday, November 3rd, 2011
This story is sooooo sad I can't stand it I don't even know y Im reading this stuff I'm only 13. I guess it's because it helps me learn about how mean people can be in this world. I always try to do my best when I fall and get hurt. But this is nothing like that this is real life real injuries and I guess that another reason that I read this is because I have a lot to say about it.
katycorb telford	11:23am on Thursday, November 3rd, 2011
omg and i think its bad when parents have favourite :(
Karima McCoy KJCC	7:30am on Thursday, November 3rd, 2011
This whole story was so so touching to me i am a strong person that has been through alot in life but to hear how things were for you and yor sisters i would never think a mother can hurt something that they were blessed with because of a negative belief that she believe in....If i can say one thing I would say keep your heaad up always continue believing that things will alwayas get better and try to find a relationship with your sisters to be a family or make a family that was never there when you were young.... Bless You in Highly Favor
JrmS Oregon	9:43pm on Wednesday, November 2nd, 2011
IRK in MN "mild cases" foes this seem like a mild case you jackass! People are abused each and everyday. Some not as bad others but it's not something you can ever forget! And the people that do "forget" just say try forget it's still locked up in their memories. The memorie of what happened and how they were abused. This women is very strong and will never forget!! This is one of the most horrifing thing I have read aside to A CHILD CALLED IT by Dave Pelzer.
xx england	4:01am on Wednesday, November 2nd, 2011
amazed!
Alaithia VA	10:38am on Tuesday, November 1st, 2011
This is the most Saddest thing i have EVER read. Debra, im sorry your mother was so sick & twisted in the head. im glad you survived though. you deffinetly didnt deserve the abuse you have to deal with in your younger life. I wish you could have had a BETTER, STRONGER, MORE LOVING, NOT SO MESSED UP sad excuse for a "mother". I dont understand how anybody could be so cruel and hatred to their young innocent child. but its okay debra, because karma will meet your mother and will BITE that bitch in the ass!!!
Megan brigham Austin tx	12:10pm on Monday, October 31st, 2011
Hey I know what you whent through wasn't easy . And there is no resin for a person to hurt another I my self have been through he'll and back but I promise you that you didn't deserve anything of what you got from thoughs people you deserved better and so did your sisters I Promis that right now it may seem that your pain and hurt and anger won't go away but in time it will get better I promise I have been through alot my self the sooner you deal with it the faster you heal but before you heal you have to forgive your self and then forgive the peole that did the wrong to you with love megan
Megan brigham Austin tx	12:09pm on Monday, October 31st, 2011
Hey I know what you whent through wasn't easy . And there is no resin for a person to hurt another I my self have been through he'll and back but I promise you that you didn't deserve anything of what you got from thoughs people you deserved better and so did your sisters I Promis that right now it may seem that your pain and hurt and anger won't go away but in time it will get better I promise I have been through alot my self the sooner you deal with it the faster you heal but before you heal you have to forgive your self and then forgive the peo
Alfie England	2:33pm on Friday, October 28th, 2011
This is so horrible, the way she called you the devil's daughter! In a way i think you are , She is the devil , i don't know how anyone can be so horrifying.
Shelby Lynn Kansas	12:43pm on Wednesday, October 26th, 2011
I WISH THIS WOULD NEVER HAPPEN TO PEOPLE IT'S SO STUPID I THINK PEOPLE WHO DO THIS SHOULD SEE WHAT IT'S LIKE!!
Anonymous Location unknown	12:41pm on Wednesday, October 26th, 2011
my friend went through the same and i'm soo sorry you had to go through this my friend killed herself last year. RIP. Alysa Dawn
Anonymous Location unknown	5:10pm on Tuesday, October 25th, 2011
no one deserves 2 b treated that way
Sarah Pomona	10:58pm on Sunday, October 23rd, 2011
I am very proud. I am a girl and am glad that there are some women out there showing that us too(girls) can be strong. Most people say boys are stronger, boys handle worse things but HELLO! There is a creation called "girls"! You ever heard of it? Girls get more abuse than boys. People used to bury little infant girls ALIVE because they thought it was disgrace. OK. Think with me for a second. You want a boy. You kill all girls. HOW ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO GET BOYS WITHOUT GIRLS?! People say they may not be resist, but if you really think about them, they are. There are some girls out there that can do WAAAAY better than boys. Not to show off or anything, but me, me girl friend, and this boy in my class are the best in P.E. Can't the world see that girls are important. Think of mother nature for gods sake! Why did they call her MOTHER nature? I absolutely HATE boys. You know why, because my dad prefers my brotherS instead of me. The ONLY and OLDEST child/girl. Why? Because I am a girl.
Felicia Michigan	6:07am on Friday, October 21st, 2011
Sorry hope everything is better for you. how are your sisters
Izzy MI	3:25pm on Wednesday, October 19th, 2011
I just wanted to say I wrote a blog about child abuse and you made #2 on my list of TOP TEN PEOPLE WHO DESERVE HEAVEN IF THEY'RE NOT THERE ALREADY
unknown Minnesota	9:58am on Monday, October 17th, 2011
I too suffered similar abuse when younger. however, I was not fortunate enough to have the privilege of a foster home, which I would have fought for. Today I am very successful with 2 boys. Her story brought tears and the memories came flooding back - I know what she meant by "just one more day" and that voice ".. you will be alright.." And like her, I will never loose the mental and physical scars I have today. I feel your strength.
Sydney hawaii	8:19am on Tuesday, October 11th, 2011
This is awful. im so glad you said something about it and lived to tell it. You are not the devils daughter. That really pisses me off how she kept saying that, and after years of doing this to you, when you get the courage to call her, she has the nerve to say that? People are ridiculous.
Lindsie Raye Uniontown	5:57am on Friday, October 7th, 2011
this is so sad, that should never had happend.. i used this story on debra for my paper for school. i feel sorry for you and your younger sisters, and i wish you well. i plan to read all your books
Anonymous Location unknown	4:40pm on Thursday, October 6th, 2011
This is so sad. Nobody should have to suffer that... D:> But I'm glad she could survive, she's so strong! :)
April NZ	2:45pm on Thursday, October 6th, 2011
Oh, my god! This women went through so much!!! It is so horrible, that I cvouldn't even finish.
rosey canada	5:01pm on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
WHAT THE HECK MAN DISTURBING AND DEPRESSING
Jrator MS	1:30pm on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
To IRK in MN. I don't know where you got your "treating" license, but not everyone forgets what happens to them. I was abused terribly as a very young child and I remember every beating that I got and everyday that I was locked away. Not everyone dissociates. Go back to college and maybe you'll learn that.
rikki bobby texas	7:20am on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
thats not right no one should have to go threw that!!!!those people should have beed done the way they did those girls..the shot between the freaken eyes..some for the guys who raped her!!
IRK MN	12:16pm on Tuesday, October 4th, 2011
I don't get it: if the abuse was so horrorific than how can she remember it? She would have dissociated, especially since it happened when she was a child. I've treated victims of very mild child abuse (e.g. minor physical abuse) who have no memory of most of the trauma. If this were true she would remember none of it and would certainty wouldn't be able to be so public about it. Sounds like a publicity sham to me...
Derrick Andersen Cresco,IOWA	8:36am on Tuesday, October 4th, 2011
I can't believe you ever had to go through this. It brings tears to my eyes as I read it.. God made you surivive for a reason and that reason was to tell your story and bring light to your eyes. I am so glad you were able to overcome all of this and eb able to share your stories with the world. Imma have to check out your books. I am sorry you lost your son in that accident. Death may be a part of life but it isnt easy. But look who you have become a strong passoniate women. Thanks for sharing your story GOD BE WILL YOU!
Kristy Minnesota	8:04pm on Monday, October 3rd, 2011
Wow..so I'm doing a college english paper on personalities and how they developed over time by what were exposed to and endure over time and when i read this i couldnt believe you story. INCREDABLE!!! I'm sorry you had to go through that (which i'm sure you hear plunty) and to over come the situation. You are truely an inspiration to many, including me, to press on through the hard. Thank you for sharing your story with the world. God bless your soul =)
aaliii england	9:54am on Friday, September 30th, 2011
aws bless nat the age of birth!
Angela Mae Ontario	12:51pm on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
I would like to say, that you are a very strong and amazing person! what bothers me most is that she got away with all the terrible abuse she caused to you and your sisters! I guess her day will come on Judgement day! your a very smart and great mom! all the power to you girl!!!!
leigh australia	9:21pm on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011
very sad to read,so glad you came out the other side....
Faith ohio	5:38pm on Monday, September 26th, 2011
Please tell me you got proof of this story, because it seems like a knock off of David Pelzers A Child Called It. But if this is a proven story, then im very happy that theese girls got out.
nicole nyc	8:12am on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011
that is so sad iam so sorry it must have been horriable
Olivia Plymouth MN	6:55pm on Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
I feel so bad now!! i wonder what happened to the other two sisters.
Rianne Barbados	3:58pm on Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
I'm sorry to hear about ur abuse Debra, i am seventeen years and im just say that god is with you and he will and will keep on providing and keeping you in his arms....about your mother u have tried talking to her and she is still the same way, then god will sort her out to, all you have to do is look after you children in a way you didn't and love them unconditional.....May god bless
Linda Australia	2:33am on Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
I am so sorry for what happened maybe you should go back to that hypocrite. And make sure she pays for it.
miley texas	6:51am on Tuesday, September 20th, 2011
i am so sorry i wish i could meet you and talk about it
melinda kansas	11:06am on Friday, September 16th, 2011
Im sorry for what happpened to yu and yur sisiters and for the ppl saying they probally deserved it NO noone deserves that.
Brianaca Barksdale kansas city ks	10:37am on Tuesday, September 13th, 2011
im so srry that happen to you im 16 and live in an independent living thing by myself with my family 3 hrs away well some of them and i thought i was through alot but wont nobody go through what u went through or hopefully or now days anyways u would get locked up thats rediculous that ur mom didnt and as i gt deeper in the details i cried more and more and actually im surprised i did cuz im at skoo rite nw and i never cry in skoo but this was jus to much and im doin a speech on hw child abuse can affect the childs future and im going to use sum stuff out of yours but im glad that u stayed strong through it and afterwards and had a family of your own
ari california	6:42pm on Monday, September 12th, 2011
this was an intense story! you are amazing for getting through all of that! God was surely watching over you! this made me want to cry! i have to do a project on abuse, and im going to put this somewhere in my project
Lauren Indiana	3:37pm on Sunday, September 11th, 2011
This story made me cry a lot. I admit, I'm only 13, and I may be "too young to understand" but I do, and this is one of the worst stories ever. I wish I could go back in time and take her (Debra Luptak) and her siblings, (even the boys), to somewhere safe. I wish I could help someone one day, and save them from pain. I bet this story has inspired many people already. Thank you whoever wrote this story, and thank you Debra for surviving and inspiring me.
Harriet Naboro Jinja	12:15pm on Sunday, September 11th, 2011
Very touching story indeed. Debra is a very strong woman and her story very inspiring. Thank God she survived. I dedicate this story to all young girls raped and infected with HIV
Jamie Florida	4:15pm on Friday, September 9th, 2011
You are one tough intelligent woman and i believe everything happens for a reason and what you went through was utterly and horribly terrifying i found this story when my friend would talk about it and i may only be 13 but i think that you are a woman in history and i am glad you made it through to tell your story i hope you get to see this :)
Joan Tennessee	3:33pm on Tuesday, September 6th, 2011
Debra you are truly a woman of God to forgive and continue to love with God's unconditional love. Bless you and thank you for giving your testimony. I am amazed at the continued abuse that goes on today in our society. We need to educate ourselves and set up a standard, not turn a deaf ear or blind eye to this evil wickedness that goes on.
sad babe hale center, tx	2:35pm on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
oh yeah n yeah ur mom would need to be killed or treated the same way n see if she like dat but yall check out Alyssa lies -jason micheal c very sad
sad babe hale center, tx	2:30pm on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
wow i caint beleve that happen to u thats so effn sad like wat kind of mother would do that n u no i had mi son wen i was 15 n i had mii daughter 2munths ago n that would never cross mi nind to do that to mii kaids i love them way to much to even think bout doin that that is jus very dumb but im happy u survived mah hope u doin good n wow i jus caint believe that ......mii son is 1n mii daughter is 2munths i would NEVER DO THAT to them
tina new mexico	9:50am on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
Parents like that should not be allowed to continue to have children it frustrates me because im a victom of abuse and my parent insist she did nothing wrong and her family just closed their eyes to it I have nothing to do with her now and havent spoken to anyone on her side of the family for many years knowing about the abuse is just as bad as if you did it yourself
Alex Australia	12:05am on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
Wow - i could hardly finish this - i read up to where she had to walk on hot metal bare foot, i was scarred man, scarred! I was shaking and almost just currled up in my bed - i really did. I was so shaken up that when i came back to this today i was shaking. Im 16, and i IDOLISE her to death!!! By the way... What's happened to her mother today??? Was she arrested when this lady came out about this. Her Mom will get whats comming to her when she goes to hell.
HLP TN	11:49pm on Friday, September 2nd, 2011
Glad you survied... some of you people need to quit being mean about this...there is no way she could have deserved to be beat right when she was born.
teri tn	11:48pm on Wednesday, August 31st, 2011
iam sick with sadness to visualize any baby/ child in this or any variance of abuse. IAM HAPPY THESE GIRLS SURVIVED. HAVING ANYONE OF THEM BEEN THE SOLE FEMALE ENDURING ENDLESS HATRED WOULD HAVE A DIFERENT OUTCOME. WHAT CAN ANYONE OF US SAY TO THIS.
unknown arizons	11:38pm on Wednesday, August 31st, 2011
Im sure my x husband is abusing my kids but more so my 5 yr old child. He keeps getting away with it my older ones protect him but i know better. I can't afford a P.I after 3 yrs in court. I need help.
john tyson oliver belize city	5:48am on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011
The lord jesus was the silent voice that debra was hearing all along ( jesus love the little children of the world)and he who is god in flesh the son of the the ALMIGHTY is the light of the world hold debra soul through her years of hell and shine his light into her little world. thank god for jesus christ who had OVERCOME death and hell and who had brought light to a world of darkness. One day debra and all the saints shall rejoice in heaven and say blessed be the lord for he is worthy to be praised. thank you lord jesus for saving debra from hell and thank you debra for holding on to jesus voice may god continue to bless you through jesus christ. love you my sister from god you make my heart cry. I FELT it for you. god bless you forever see you in heaven.
Misty South Carolina	12:28am on Friday, August 19th, 2011
It is truly amazing how you survived such conditions at such a young age. I have a two year old little girl and I would kill myself before I could bring harm to her. You are a strong women from the day you were born. I am curious of how your 2 sisters are now?
Leya na Philippines	11:36pm on Monday, August 8th, 2011
You are really a strong person Debra Luptak. You had survived, and turned out to be a very strong person. You became an inspiration to a lot of people who are being abused brutally and without mercy. I salute you for being strong!
Ashley New York	1:23pm on Friday, August 5th, 2011
That Is Horrible What She Went Through. Im Am So Happy You Survived. She Is Very Strong Woman. Her Story Will Influence A Lot Of People. What Happened To The Sisters?
HowSad Brooklyn NY	8:27pm on Saturday, July 30th, 2011
Oh one last thing, too. Ironically, Steven Stayners brother, Carey, ended up being a serial killer/rapist. I mean, wtf. Google Stevens name. Or, Careys. I think the book "My name is not Steven" is about Steven Stayner. I promise it will break your heart.
HowSad Brooklyn NY	8:23pm on Saturday, July 30th, 2011
Wait, what am I "voting" on? I assumed how awful the story was. Are we voting on how it well it was written or how awfull of a story it actually is? Well, this time I'll vote excellent.
HowSad Brooklyn NY	8:21pm on Saturday, July 30th, 2011
This case here is absolutly heartbreaking along with alot of other chatters here. I have so much empathy for you, I've always been this way too. I guess it probably comes from being nurtured as a child. Now dont get me wrong, my mother has her ways about herself, oh yes, but nothing that stems as "abusive". She has some "personality" issues, but, who doesnt to some degree, right? Anyways, when I read some of these cases it makes me not only feel so silly but almost bratty that I ever everrrrr complained about some of the petty things I have dared complained about. Im so glad I recognize that in me. There are so many cases of neglect and child abuse out here, its sickening. I always come back to the same question that I know the rest of you do which is "how can anyone do this"? Just how? How does someone miss that componant of empathy and a moral compass? HOW? It never makes sense to me and thats with trying to understand some people psycosis. Steven Stayner was always such a sad and tragic case. All those years he suffered,kidnapped, at the hands of a pedophile until he finally escapes to help another young boy who fell victim and then, ends up dying on a motorcycle (I think) just a few yrs later. Just tragic. Lattie McGee and his brother Abraham is another that stands out to me. You should youtube Steve Wilkos interview with their mother. PURE EVIL as she relishes in delight as she watches Steves disgust with her responses. Another little girl who was caged up recently I think in AZ was another sad sad case. Its just heart wrenching, it really is. I can only hope for the best for all of you whether you were a victim or not. Stay strong. Be safe.
Ramox Etoch South Carolina	4:23pm on Friday, July 29th, 2011
As a fellow survivor of child abuse, I am very happy for this story.
Clareen Pennsylvania	2:21pm on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
wow...I am an adult survivor of severe child abuse, lot of things in story I can relate to but....I really didnt have it that bad after reading of this horrible abuse/neglect..I am sorry for the pain you carry and the lifetime effects of a lack of love and nurturing that all children deserve. May god always be with you in times of sadness and times of happiness. So much respect for you.
autumn Location unknown	1:46pm on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
I feel so bad for Debra. She is a beautiful woman &children should never go through such torture. I am 15 and my parents are very loving, I just feel so bad for and the things I put my parents through. God bless the boys &girls that go through such pain.
Nic Indiana	10:39am on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
God Bless tough children who are able to survive the evils in life. Children are to be cherished and loved every moment of everyday.
lina redding	12:00pm on Tuesday, July 26th, 2011
Obviously her mother was a sadistic cow but debra made it through! Her mother WILL answer to god one day and she will be so sorry about everything that happened when she is burning in hell.
Shelby arkansas	1:24pm on Monday, July 25th, 2011
What kind of woman could do this to her children? She brought those babies into this world and would do something like that. If a man or woman has the nerve to hurt a child that goes to show what kind of person you are. I am so happy she got away from this, but she should have never had to go through this. Maybe we should all open our eyes and take a stand against child abuse!!
Eveline Sword Location unknown	4:09am on Sunday, July 24th, 2011
Perhaps you have wondered adding a bit extra than just your thoughts? What i'm saying is, what you say is significant and every thing. But its got no punch, no pop! Possibly if you added a pic or two, a video? You could have such a more powerful weblog should you let individuals SEE what youre talking about as an alternative to just reading it.
Bettina florida	6:04pm on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
God Bless you on surviving. I am a teacher and worry about their well-being every day. Children are a blessing, everyone of them.
mam virgina	5:43pm on Wednesday, July 20th, 2011
this is very tragic. thank god for that voice. this is a tragic survival but check out you tube and watch the video on a 5month old that didn't survive. look up baby brianna. i know we live in a free country but when we have cases like these having babies should not be one freedom.
Matt Colorado	4:17am on Sunday, July 17th, 2011
Nevermind some of these kids that refuse to respect your story and wont post their names. Be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Katrina Bronx	6:10am on Thursday, July 14th, 2011
So Sad, I just wish I could have some kind of special ability to recongnize that this is happening to certain children I see ...and be able to save them from parents like this
Saddened Canada	11:55am on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011
What an awful childhood this woman had. Her mother will have to answer to God one day for the unimaginable horrors she inflicted upon her daughter. May God intervene and stop this horror of abuse.
vanessa denver	8:13am on Thursday, July 7th, 2011
this touches my heart- i hope other girls and boys can learn from you to stay strong- god bless you
Paigee NSW, Aust.	1:29am on Sunday, July 3rd, 2011
Anonymous, 'A Child Called It' really is sad! i was unbelievably shocked when i read it, and this article is ten times more horrific.
Anonymous Location unknown	7:57pm on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
paige dusome, she might be trying to alert people of child abuse!!!! Read A Child Called It, soo sad! How do you do the to an innocent child!
Melanie VA	1:57pm on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
I thank God that Debra beat the odds and survived! I pray that all of her siblings made it out and are doing fine as well; including her brothers, because believe it or not they were subjected to some form of abuse as well.
Amelia Arizona	8:55pm on Tuesday, June 28th, 2011
to Bailey and Sara- i was sexually abused too. now i am a teacher and i tell my students to tell and keep telling...so to both of you i say it's not your fault and i want you to tell your teachers, your aunts, your friends' moms, the nurse at school, your coaches, anyone and everyone and keep telling till someone makes it stop...it's not ok for anyone to do that to you...and the abusers won't stop with you, they will do it to your little sisters, your neices, your friends and eventually your daughters... you can make it stop by telling...don't keep their dirty little secret for them...praying for you both to have courage and to know that Jesus love you and He weeps over what's been done to you.....
Edeana utah	2:02am on Saturday, June 25th, 2011
I went through this exact same thing, minus the part where her parents get divorced. My parents stayed together and my mom was the one on all types of pills. She beat and tortured me and my sister for years. My mom beat me unconscious when i was 13 because i forgot to lock the bathroom door while taking a shower. She said i was trying to seduce my dad and brothers. I am now 23 years old, but my earliest memory of my mom was when i was 3 or 4. We were on our way to my grandparents home to visit them. Right before our arrival there My brother and I were arguing about a seat. My mom didnt put us in set belts or car seats, so we fought over "good seat" all the time. suddenly the entire car came to a jolt as she pressed her foot on the breaks and got out of the car. She came right for me. She beat me so bad that she knocked out 3 of my front teeth and gave me a bloody nose. but it wasn't the blood that stopped her, i was chocking on my teeth that stopped her. My grandpa told my mom he would take me away if she kept doing that. But she was way too manipulating. She just blamed everything on me and my sisters. Till this very day she does. wow I am so sorry you had to go through that. I know how it feels.
Ashley California	8:57pm on Friday, June 24th, 2011
she's beautiful God saved her omg my friend went through tragedies like this and she told me about it so when i went to her house i told her mom she is sleeping at my house and her mom told me to f*ck off i slapped her i don't like being talked like that and i encouraged her to call children services.... i am 16 and my best friend is a child abuse surviver..this happend last year
Amber Young Titusville, FL	4:17pm on Tuesday, June 21st, 2011
Can`t believe she went through this. After i read this i felt really sorry for her. So glad that she survived. I kinda felt the same way when i was a child. I`m now a parent of three loving kids and a loving husband.
Anonymous Location unknown	5:39pm on Friday, June 17th, 2011
yes-she's the devil's child because her parents were devils
mohan suriname	9:16pm on Thursday, June 16th, 2011
thank G0d for the courage and strengh he give you to survive and tell. you are a blessing. by telling your story it incourage me to be strong and have hope no matter what i am going through their is a way out. again you are a blessing.
Maria Tucson, AZ	1:01pm on Thursday, June 16th, 2011
Amazing she survived the abuse. Remarkable that she was able to move forward and stop the viscous cycle of abuse. Debra was born to make an impact in the most INSPIRING ways and that is her true testimonies of her life and gift- she offers hope to so many children and adults. Never ever allow anyone to reach that place in your mind that you understand to be yours and yours alone. Bravo Debra!!! Congratulations for being such a strong individual and never losing hope.
UnVoiced Human Rights United States	7:25am on Wednesday, June 15th, 2011
We take animal abuse so seriously in the United States, why not humans - women and children abuse. The animal abusers and DUI drivers are charged with FELONIES, why not domestic violence abusers getting felonies. Time for change! These cases do not belong in Family Courts!!!!
rebecca pearson winsford	3:23am on Thursday, June 9th, 2011
i also indured some terrible things as a child to a teenager to because i was abused at primary school and high school. i was even forced to have sex with a boy that i did not like. i just stood there while my mate laura pulled my pants down i felt so humilliated. what would you have done if you had been in the sme situation as me?
meghan hagerstown	6:42pm on Friday, June 3rd, 2011
so glad she survived!!! I cant even imagine how that would feel. That is just so disturbing and i want to try to help stop child abuse!!! it makes me cry when i think about it!!! this made me cry and the song concrete angel by martina mcbride and the book the child called it by dave peltzer its a true story.
Lexi Location unknown	8:53am on Friday, June 3rd, 2011
horrible what happened to her 2 sisters? what about there stroies after leaving the home! She is right she is the devils child! Because her mom is horrible
Rosie South Texas	4:04pm on Thursday, June 2nd, 2011

Rosie South Texas	4:04pm on Thursday, June 2nd, 2011

Bailey California	7:17pm on Tuesday, May 31st, 2011
I know how she feels. My father used to lock me in the basement and rape me. I am 15 now and it hasent stopped. I am glad someone else knows my pain.
Amira Location unknown	1:38pm on Sunday, May 29th, 2011
That mother is just so stupid, Debra should have been treated better. I am so glad she is alive, this is a great example of never giving up and proves what u get if u perservere.
Anonymous Bay Area	11:20pm on Friday, May 27th, 2011
Debra's so-called mother is so twisted and screwed up in her own ways of thinking that she doesn't even know how to take care of herself, let alone be a mother to her own daughters...and she was and still is a really sadistic brute and she should've gone to jail/mental hospital for all those sadistic crimes that she committed against Debra and her sisters! Mothers who abuse their own children are, in fact, one of the real abusers...the little beasts. Oh, and to FG, Killer and Pedo Porn (and the other trolls in here), if you don't care about Debra Luptak, then disappear from this page, you uneducated, ignorant imbeciles! Debra was sadistically abused by her inhumane, beastly, uncaring, unloving, ignorant, sadistic sexist "mother"...AND YOU ARE APPROVING?!? You guys should be locked up if so because that makes me sick to even think that some people like you trolls are completely against Debra! A parent who has at least half of the clue will be able to raise his/her children without ever resorting to such sadistic violence, now grow up, you cruel children ( I meant the trolls in here)! Oh, and as for you, Debra, don't listen to what those cruel children are saying about you because I know what it's like to be abused by such a misogynistic mother, so you don't need your terrible, sadistic, ignorant monster of a mother; you don't need to spend any of your time nor emotion on such a sexist person that denies all your truths about females being equal to males; in fact, females are always equal to males. Oh, and my heart goes out to you and your sisters...and I do hope that you look into reporting that sadistic beast of a mother. Oh, and my condolences to Bryce too.
Matt Florida	9:02am on Tuesday, May 24th, 2011
Debra's Mother Does NOT Deserve To Survive At All!
Shannon Ohio	6:19am on Tuesday, May 24th, 2011
that is disgusting she should be sent to prison 4ever
sara ohio	10:48am on Monday, May 23rd, 2011
my fater and grandfather make me have sex wwwith them every night, i m so scaredddddddddddd
scott hayden mpls	10:31am on Friday, May 20th, 2011
the lake park wild rice children's home in fergus falls mn abuses kids they should be held accountable.
Bitch please Heritage	5:28am on Tuesday, May 17th, 2011
Who ever said die hoe fuq ur self
Michelle USA	10:54am on Monday, May 16th, 2011
My mother endured abuse as a child of a single mother with mental illness. Like Debra, my mother went on to become the first woman in her family to graduate college, she has been working with schools for years as a teacher of children in impoverished and troubled homes. I am so blessed to have my mother, she has always been so gentle and loving with my brother and I. I read about these types of cases because I never want to forget that these are not just stories- they are part of reality, disturbing as it may be, I refuse to ignore the fact that this happens. The most violent offender in the world is ignorance. I am only in my mid twenties now, but for most of my life I have always wanted to someday become a foster parent, so that hopefully I can make a difference that matters. FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD.
vicky bombay	1:19pm on Saturday, May 14th, 2011
hey DEBRA u r a true beauty a true human on dis panet ..... u r an angel send by god ....... i salute u . u r a true courageous n 1drful kid , teen girl , girl n women between us on dis planet ...... v r nthin in front of u .... its our pleasure 2 ve a person lyk u .... dis is nt d limit , dis is out of d limit dat u had tolerated dese things ...... i cant say anythin 2 u coz m nt dat much able , bt ..... GOD LL SURELY BLESS U MISS DEBRA .... ve a 1drful n successful lyf n plz plz plz , plz b hpy :)
Samii Philadelphia	10:32am on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011
This was the saddest thing i ever read ! it had me near tears ! i always read things on child abuse because the topic is horrible and interests me , i want to work in a career path to stop it . i am currently 16 years old . i want any parent who abuses children to read this comment 'you are all sick, immature, pathetic, disgusting pigs! you should be utterly ashamed in yourselves for the acts you have done to poor innocent children! if you do not wish to keep them, put them up for adoption but dont make them go through that hell!' - samii
Nicole Philadelphia	9:39am on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011
Wow i cant believe she survived. This woman is what i call strong. Im so happy that you and your sisters lived through this. I am only 16 and i am a victim of child abuse and i understand what you had to go through. Your mother shouldnt have been labeled a mother. she should be behind bars for the rest of her life. I hate her and i dont even know her. Im just called that you lived through it all!!!!!!
Lupe Los Angeles CA	10:56pm on Monday, May 9th, 2011
I have suffered abuse and have been controlled by my parents all of my life
STEPHANIE ST PAUL,MN	2:34am on Saturday, April 30th, 2011
THANK GOD FOR HIS MERCY
paige dusome canada	5:15pm on Friday, April 29th, 2011
so many questions where do i start well why do people post these incidents i mean u dont know if she wanted her story every where
survivor withheld	8:29pm on Thursday, April 28th, 2011
i was exposed to abuse early on in life, but was fortunate enough to had been placed in a foster home where the couple showed they card about me by their words and actions.
Charley Manchester	9:13am on Thursday, April 21st, 2011
Those parents were such bullies I can not belive! I wish new that girl! Then she could of tolds me for me to stop it before it happend! I wish I could of smoothed feses in her mothers face! It's me feel I shouldn't be so horrible to my mum and dad! Because she didn't really have one.
Nikhaya Chicago	2:14pm on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011
Oh my this stoory touched my heart ! I want to be a social worker to stop tings like this. But I think it was nothing but God that kept her 1!
brii Location unknown	2:16pm on Saturday, April 16th, 2011
im am so sorry for youu. im 14 and when i get older i want to be a social worker. i read a child called it and your story & it makes me want to be a social worker even more. im so grateful for my mom & my dad. im so glad theyy dont treat me that way. & im so grateful my stepdad doesnt treat me that way. it makes me appreciate what i have so much more. thankk you for sharing your story.
paige je weleetka, oklahoma	9:41pm on Friday, April 15th, 2011
this is so sad i cant even imagine what she went through. i have been abused before but it wasnt to that level. yet. im so thankful that ive gotten out evean thugh i still wish to see my father.
T Utah	8:39pm on Friday, April 15th, 2011
I know it sounds as if I am uncaring, but the Bible states that "Ye shall not place judgement lest ye be judged..." It's not my place to judge this person, only to forgive and begin to heal myself. I have alot of empathy for anyone that must endure, or has endured, this horrific injustice. But we, the survivors are meant to survive for a reason, so let go of the pain and forgive. I am 47 years old and I have learned to love me and who I am as a person (even my flaws). Always remember, YOU are a wonderful human being, and YOU deserve to be happy! Forgiveness starts with baby steps. Write down your feelings in a journal and do this faithfully each day--release all of those ugly thoughts in your mind and by writing them down, they slowly dissipat, because if you don't release the hurt and pain, it will eat you up inside and the "enemy" will still be harming you. Releasing it and forgiving, will cause you to triumph over your "enemy". You can write for 30 seconds or over an hour, just let it flow; your mind will tell your hands what to write and how long to write. Don't fear the blank page, it's your friend.
T Utah	8:05pm on Friday, April 15th, 2011
This is a dreadful story. But the true healing process begins when a person forgives their "enemy". I know because I too have experienced child molestation. It's a long process, but one well worth the journey. Peace to all who have not found the path to forgiveness and may you find it soon and begin to heal.
-!@Stevii-!@ Saginaw,MI	6:37am on Thursday, April 14th, 2011
I cant belive this happedned to a person im only 13 and I would never want to experince the things you every went through god bless you and in the bible god said when its your time you will go
Will NC	7:26pm on Wednesday, April 6th, 2011
She didn't give up on life in her early life, she trucked on as a fighter of God, she made it all come true...
FG IDK	9:18am on Friday, April 1st, 2011
DIE HOE
brandon nm	9:10am on Friday, April 1st, 2011
I would never do that to my kids
shelly amarillo	9:18am on Thursday, March 31st, 2011
o my goodness this story touched my heart it hurts to hear how much pain you went through and yet today your a strong beautiful women walking Gods path you should me there are worst stories out there and it is important for those that are hurt need to find God you are a wonderful person and God helped you survive for a reason and thats to let everyone know your story i wish the best of luck with your happiness and dont let anyone take that away from you its best to move on
Lil Whiz NC	1:12pm on Wednesday, March 30th, 2011
Hope they rot in hell and get satan's feces smeared all over their faces!!
Lia B us	11:17am on Monday, March 28th, 2011
This had me in tears.
killer can not tell	9:29am on Monday, March 28th, 2011
she probably deserved all that stuff
jack anderson des moiness iowa	9:24am on Monday, March 28th, 2011
wow im glad she dident die she went to somanny diferent houses and raped somaney times its sad well i know shes nice buy not doing that to her kids
amanda NC	8:58pm on Friday, March 25th, 2011
i have 2 young babies of my own and i can't even IMAGINE putting a child through this kind of life!!
Yuan Y Singapore	8:44pm on Friday, March 25th, 2011
I wish well for Debra. and as for her mom, GO TA HELL!
dark Location unknown	1:19pm on Thursday, March 24th, 2011
As a person that has survived every type of abuse imaginablei agree with alot of the posts on here from the readers. Not onle can abuse victims rise above all else but we can look back and say what didnt kill us made us stronger. And for what happened to me i feel like i am the strongest cause i did survive. thank you for sharing your story. It was very touching

Page: -1- 2

Contribute

Towns

Features